You've read the books. You've tried the date nights. You still end up feeling disconnected.
Private coaching will have you laugh together in the kitchen again. You reach for each other without thinking. When something goes wrong, you sort it out in 10 minutes instead of losing the whole weekend.
I keep my client list small on purpose, so spaces are limited.
My wife and I have been where you are. We've had the same fights, the same distance and the same nights lying awake, wondering where the 2 people who fell in love had gone.
We found our way back. Now I help a small number of couples do the same.
I take on only a few couples at a time, and I choose them carefully, because I only want to work with couples I know I can help. When you're in, you have my full attention, from your first call to the evening you realise you're in love again.
For couples who still love each other, but somewhere along the way started living like flatmates.
For men and women who want to change their love life from their side, in a relationship or single.
Not sure which one fits? We'll work that out on the call.
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Jan-Willem could be incredibly gentle when I needed holding, and tough when I needed challenging to see beyond my fears. He reflected back the unhealed parts of me that were longing to be seen. I'll be forever grateful the universe led me to him.
He helped me find my self-worth and my passion for life. During our time together I wrote a novel, something I'd been saying I would write for years. The best part was simply that he made me feel safe, and that I can be vulnerable without fear of being hurt.
Jan-Willem holds a clear, supportive space for every experience and emotion. Every time, new perspectives emerge that I couldn't see myself. He's the perfect combination of understanding, supporting and challenging, and he celebrates every bold decision I make.
In fifteen years of personal development I've never come across someone with such a unique ability to see the hidden power and potential in others and bring it out into the world. Fierce and confronting, held with incredible care. If you want massive transformation, Jan is the person to realise it.
I feel like I've become a completely new person. I built the deepest, most loving friendships I've ever had. I'm building my business with more conviction than ever, and I can dive into romantic relationships feeling more than before while feeling more secure than before.
This coaching worked on so many different areas of my life. Since starting with Jan-Willem I gained the strength to propose to my girlfriend, she said yes, and I've started my own men's health coaching business. To say I'd recommend this is an understatement.
It starts with a free discovery call. We look at where you actually are, what's been happening, and whether coaching is genuinely the right container. Sometimes the honest answer is that you don't need me yet, you need the challenge, and I'll tell you that too. If we're a fit, we map the engagement together: how often, how long, and what done looks like.